Alzheimer's disease is a condition that affects millions of seniors worldwide, with new diagnoses occurring each year. Beyond impairing memory, this progressive disorder also significantly impacts a person's ability to perform everyday activities. A frequently overlooked aspect of the disease, however, is the reluctance among seniors to share an Alzheimer's diagnosis with their loved ones.
The Fear and Stress Associated With Alzheimer's
Telling family about an Alzheimer’s diagnosis can be a stressful prospect for seniors. There’s fear around the anticipated progression of the disease and the potential loss of identity. Many would also stress over the uncertainty about how their lifestyle will change or how they will manage everyday tasks. The prospect of forgetting cherished memories or not recognizing close family members also becomes an overwhelming reality.
Common Reactions to Alzheimer's Diagnosis in Seniors
The wide range of emotions a senior might experience after a diagnosis can typically include denial, anger, depression, or a combination of these. Denial is often the first reaction, a defense mechanism to avoid the harsh reality of their condition. Anger then sets in as seniors struggle with the unfairness of their situation, asking, "Why me?". Depression may also take hold due to the feeling of impending doom or the fear of being a burden to loved ones. These emotional responses can impact the senior's well-being, even exacerbating their condition.
Why Seniors Hesitate in Sharing Diagnosis
There are multifaced reasons seniors hesitate to tell their families. The fear and stigma surrounding the disease make it harder for them to disclose their condition. They might be anxious about the reactions of their loved ones or worry about causing them unnecessary distress. Many seniors will also fear the loss of their independence and control. The role reversal, where they become dependents instead of the ones providing care, can be hard to accept for some. Others also fear being viewed differently or as a burden by their families, something many older adults desperately want to avoid.
How Families and Caregivers Can Help
As family members and caregivers, understanding the senior’s emotions and fears can significantly assist in providing appropriate support. Encourage open communication to help alleviate some of the senior's concerns, ensuring they feel understood and cared for.
Professional caregivers are invaluable, as they are trained to handle such situations. They can provide emotional support, help with daily tasks, and create a safe environment for seniors. Professional carers can also guide family members on how to deal with their loved one's diagnosis. They can also provide advice and strategies tailored to the senior’s unique circumstances.
Senior Helpers Vancouver Supports Seniors With Alzheimer's
Living with Alzheimer's can be challenging for seniors, even more so if they feel they must face it alone. Providing support, extending empathy, and encouraging open communication can go a long way in creating a safe space for seniors to share their diagnosis, fostering a sense of understanding and solidarity in navigating this difficult journey.
If you're living in Vancouver, Longview, Camas, Kelso, or Chehalis and need professional assistance caring for a senior with Alzheimer's, consider Senior Helpers Vancouver. Our team provides compassionate and tailored in-home care, maintaining the senior’s quality of life while navigating the challenges of Alzheimer’s. Contact us for more information!