The time has come for you to downsize your living arrangements and prepare to relocate. You knew the time was near but somehow, you feel a bit overwhelmed and second-guessing whether you are making the right decision. You are not alone, there are many seniors who go through the exact process and feeling of apprehension each year. Here are a 6 tips to help you get through the downsizing process without feeling stressed and overwhelmed.
Take Your Time
There is no need to try to rush the downsizing process. Depending upon your moving date, give yourself an adequate amount of time to get things done. It is impossible to downsize a lifetime of memories in just a couple of days or a weekend. Moving through the process too quickly can lead to you worrying about whether you made the right choice when it comes to certain items you own.
Set Realistic Goals
Give yourself adequate time to think about the process and begin to take small steps to get things in order to downsize. In actuality, you probably need a month to get the job down. Even then, you should not try to do all the downsizing alone. Downsize one room at a time. Be sure to have all the supplies such as trash bags, permanent markers, boxes, labels, and cleaning supplies before getting started.
Think About Each Item Before Making a Decision
Give yourself time to think about each one of your possessions. Giving yourself a few minutes before deciding whether to keep, donate, toss, or sell your items. Doing this will keep you from second-guessing whether you made the right decision. In some instances, there may be family members who will agree to take some of your beloved items off your hands.
Call Family Members to Help
Calling family members over to help with the downsizing is a great time to share memories, and talk about family heirlooms and other cherished trinkets. If planning to sell items, you might ask them to help you post items online, or create flyers for a garage sell. Either the way, this is the best time to bond with family members and create new memories before moving.
Ask for Help on Moving Day
Plan early on who will help you on moving day. The day is sure to be filled with anxiety and different emotions. Ask a family member, close friend, or someone who you know will and can help you get through the day. Ask if they will be willing to stay awhile and help you get settled and unpack your most needed items. It is understandable the need to see a familiar face on moving and move-in day. However, you will most likely adjust quickly to your new home and make friends with no problem.
Set Appointment With Moving Company
As soon as you know your moving date, set up an appointment with the moving company. It is important to call ahead, just in case your moving day is during the movers busiest season. Also, be sure to go with a reputable company, one that comes highly recommended by friends or family members. It is always best to go with a company someone else has used and can vouch for their services.
Downsizing is always a heartfelt process whether it is an aging adults going through the process or someone else, however it doesn't have to feel overwhelming and filled with anxiety, with a bit of planning and organization, it can be a smooth and hassle-free transition.