Finding a special way to celebrate the person you love on Valentine's Day is always meaningful, but when your partner is living with dementia, it can present some unique challenges. However, there are ways to make your Valentine's Day together special without disrupting their routine. Learn how to enjoy a comfortable and love-filled Valentine's Day this year with your partner with dementia, courtesy of Senior Helpers Palo Alto.
Prioritize Comfort and Familiar Activities
When planning a Valentine's Day celebration for a partner with dementia, keep things as simple and familiar as possible. Start by thinking about activities that are comfortable and do not involve many steps, like sitting in the garden or going out for coffee. Stick to activities you know they enjoy, and you can do that without too much effort. Keep decorations to a minimum and opt for soft music playing in the background or nothing (if that works best).
Watch a Favorite Movie Together
Choose one of your partner's favorite films and set up a cozy space together, with pillows and blankets. Make sure it is well lit, yet not too bright, as this may cause discomfort for them. Let them hold onto both your hands during the movie or cuddle up together on the sofa if that works best.
Look at Old Photos
Gather some pictures from throughout your relationship and arrange them in a nice frame or album. Include photographs that evoke emotion or memories, along with stories to accompany each one. This is also an activity that you can do together with family and friends for added joy! Before beginning, keep in mind that although it may bring up positive emotions, it could also spark sadness, so remain supportive if something negative comes up during the conversation.
Serve a Special Meal
A three-course meal may be too much for someone living with dementia, so keep it simple and opt for individual portions. Try to get them involved whenever you can by asking them what their favorite dishes are or if they're up for helping out in the kitchen beforehand. It can also be meaningful to share some highlights of past meals you've enjoyed together as part of reminiscing during dinner. If you don't want to cook, ordering your favorite take-out is another option.
Explore Personalized Caregiving Services for Your Loved One
Valentine's Day can be as unique and special for someone living with dementia as it is for anyone. Keep things simple, familiar, and focused on what brings comfort and joy to your loved one. Involve family members if needed to provide emotional support during the celebration. Whether taking a walk together or watching a favorite movie, remember that time spent together is invaluable no matter how you celebrate!
If you want to help make your partner living with dementia more comfortable this Valentine's Day, contact Senior Helpers Palo Alto to learn more about our caregiving services. We provide personalized caregiving services for seniors in and around Palo Alto, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, and Menlo Park, California.